Woman Encourages 'Lover Girls Who Keep Getting Burned' to Date for Money and People Think She's Making Some Pretty Convincing Points

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Elna McHilderson • Managing Editor
Oct 14, 2024 9:00 PM EDT

Ladies, hear her out. She's not saying not to give love a chance. She's just saying if you have gotten to the point in your life where love has done nothing but let you down, why don't you let it let you down with some cash in your wallet? The TikToker goes on about how she has never even considered money as a point in any of her romantic conquests—that she has dated men from all over the lower tax bracket and has always gone 50/50 with finances when in a relationship. After the last heartbreak, she was done with dating altogether. She never wanted to love again. Until she had the epiphany to approach dating "like a man." She decided to start dating to get her other needs met first, i.e. her financial needs, and then hope love finds its way after. She says love would be a plus, but love has no guarantee that it won't let you down. Money in the bank, on the other hand, comes in handy whether you're at your lowest or not. See what she has to say below! 

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    if dating for love isn't working out for you
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    date for money
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    I'm being dead serious
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    my dating approach has been unbelievably pure for my entire life
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    never cared about the financial status of the guy
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    have dated people with less money than me
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    have always gone fifty fifty in relationships
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    has never been financially taken care of by a guy
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    I just wanted to fall in love
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    and have a genuine partnership and connection with someone
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    and guess where that's gotten me
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    used taken advantage of single
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    my ex who I thought I was in love with at the time
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    we split everything fifty fifty
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    including rent we live together
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    that he was never gonna marry me
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    A he was never gonna settle down with me
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    every guy who I've had genuine feelings for has just hurt me
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    I got to the point where I just stopped dating
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    I was like men are just ruining my life
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    until I realized what if I just start thinking like a man
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    what if I just start getting what I need out of these relationships
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    instead of worrying about the genuine love and connection that we share
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    you don't get to choose if that's gonna be there or not anyway
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    so if you stumble upon love amazing
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    but if you don't you're still getting something out of the deal
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    know why it took me so long to figure this out
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    but if you are a lover girl that keeps getting burned
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    hey what if you just got what you needed from men
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    how about that how about you try that and let me know how it goes
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